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Katy's avatar

“When Plan A falls through, go ahead and cry about it. But only for a moment before moving forward with Plan B, or Plan C, D, E, F, G.

The important bit is that we stay together, all the way to Z.”

Made me burst crying. Also your family has the coolest names - Grandpa Stash, iconic!!

It’s been so fun to see you truly live this everyday, whether you’re aware or not. I know you pivot a lot and end up finding the magic.

Hmm what have I learned so far in marriage? I’d say “go deep”. it was a part of our vows but still rings true. It’s from HONY- you have three choices when a wave comes - run from it, fall back on ego & stand your ground, or go deep.

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Alexa Cepeda Scott's avatar

Wow I LOVE that - those three options for when a wave comes. That’s so beautiful, thanks for sharing babe. 🤍And thank you for seeing me pivot my little booty off. “End up finding the magic” made me tear up.

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Anj's avatar

Love this “go deep” idea so much too!

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Lisa's avatar

"your vulnerability hangover" hahahahaha. you crack me up SO much love! Excellent job in noting your grace in going from your plan A to your plan B. The critical ingredient is 'grace'- but honestly I think however you make it to Plan B is a win. Congratulations on a wonderful first year! xoxoxoxo

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Anj's avatar

Plan A to B is one of my favorite Cepeda family-isms that I have adopted for myself! It is the simplest, clearest nudge in the right direction when things feel stuck. Absolutely beautiful reflections & piece sis 💕 Love getting to read your words!

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Alexa Cepeda Scott's avatar

Thank you, sis 🥺🤍

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